How to treat a wife who is cold and indifferent

Modern people have certain requirements for sex life after marriage. Especially for newlyweds, they are very curious and addicted to sex. However, some people report that their wives seem to be sexually apathetic and are not enthusiastic about sex, and some even feel disgusted and reject it. So, what should you do if your wife is sexually frigid?

1. Diet adjustment

Hen

It is a young hen that has not laid eggs. It is rich in protein, vitamin E, B vitamins, calcium, phosphorus, iron, etc. It has the functions of nourishing yin and moistening dryness, replenishing essence and filling marrow. It is most suitable for women with weak sexual desire.

2. Trust men

Psychoanalysis emphasizes unconscious psychological conflicts and believes that part of the lack of orgasm is rooted in traumatic childhood experiences. For example, a girl who grows up in a broken family, if she is deeply impressed by her father's cruelty and her mother's bitterness and grief, will develop a fear and distrust of men. After she grows up and gets married, even if she loves her husband, her subconscious fear and distrust of men will still prevent her from reaching orgasm.

3. Acupoint massage

The patient lies on his back, and the operator rubs the lower abdomen with his palms in a clockwise and counterclockwise direction, 30 times each. Press the Qihai, Guanyuan, Zusanli and Sanyinjiao points for 1 minute each. The patient lies in the prone position, and the operator presses the kidney point, heart point, liver point, and life gate point with one finger for 1 minute each. Rub the area below the Jingmen point on the left or right side of the back with your palm for 5 to 10 minutes. The patient then lies on his back, and the operator uses the four fingers of both hands to knead the patient's Yinlian and Wuxing points on the upper inner side from top to bottom, passing through the Yinbao to the Yinlingquan point below the knee, and repeats 3 to 5 times.

4. Active communication to alleviate sexual indifference

For a wife who is psychologically traumatized or has mental concerns, the husband should patiently guide her and help her eliminate her worries. If stress and disharmony are caused by women's lack of sexual knowledge, couples should actively communicate, learn sexual knowledge, understand each other's sexual psychology and sexual needs, actively explore and try with the consent of both parties, and learn to appreciate and praise each other. Be careful, patient and gentle during sexual life, with more thorough foreplay to promote sexual harmony.

5. Coordinate the relationship between husband and wife

Because there is no affection between husband and wife or the relationship is not harmonious, there will be no pleasure in sex life. A wife is not a vassal of her husband. She can often be accompanied by him for walks, travels and movies. Put more effort into housework, give her more spiritual encouragement, and constantly provide her with psychological comfort. When differences of opinion arise in life, we should adopt an attitude of seeking common ground while reserving differences, and being tolerant and magnanimous, so that the conflicts can be eased and resolved.