What's wrong with dryness during sex?

Many women may have had this experience: vaginal dryness during intercourse. In fact, there are many reasons for vaginal dryness, including gynecological inflammation, endocrine disorders, etc. Generally, when this happens, it is best to go to the hospital to check whether the vaginal dryness is caused by disease. If so, you must actively treat it, otherwise it will affect the quality of your sex life. You must develop good living and hygiene habits in your daily life.

Why is it so dry down there?

The vagina is an important reproductive organ of women. During sexual intercourse, love fluid will be secreted in the vagina to act as a lubricant, allowing the penis to enter smoothly. However, some female friends find that their vagina is dry during sexual intercourse and they are unable to complete the sexual intercourse smoothly. The following are the main reasons why it is so dry:

1. Endocrine disorders

The endocrine disorders mentioned here mainly refer to women over the age of 35 who frequently experience irregular menstruation over a period of time. When women experience this endocrine disorder, it will lead to a decrease in vaginal secretions and vaginal dryness.

2. Postpartum

Women who have given birth often complain about pain during intercourse, vaginal dryness, and decreased libido... After giving birth, hormone levels drop sharply. If they continue to breastfeed, their sex life will be more likely to be affected. Therefore, it is normal for some women to experience sexual abnormalities within a short period of time after giving birth. At the same time, those who give birth vaginally often have vaginal birth injuries, or scars formed by birth injuries. Sometimes it can cause women to feel pain during sex, leading to postpartum dryness.

3. Gynecological inflammation

Gynecological inflammation is also one of the important causes of vaginal dryness. Many women do not develop good living habits and thus suffer from one gynecological inflammation or another, such as vaginitis. These inflammations will affect the mood of female friends, causing them to have low interest in sexual life and naturally unable to secrete more love fluid.

4. Psychological pressure

When women encounter stress in work or life in the near future, it may also cause women to have low sexual desire during sex, leading to delayed sexual arousal and symptoms of vaginal dryness.

5. Excessive cleaning

The weather is hot and humid in summer, and many women are particularly frequent in bathing. Some even repeatedly wash their vaginas while bathing, not knowing that this can cause damage to the vagina. Experts say that repeated deep vaginal douching will directly lead to the inability of the vagina to retain the necessary secretions and beneficial bacteria, resulting in vaginal dryness, and will also cause other vaginal inflammations.

6. Lack of sexual excitement

During foreplay, when a woman has sexual desire but has not yet reached the necessary level, or when her husband "gets straight to the point" from the beginning, this can cause vaginal dryness during intercourse due to insufficient secretion of body fluids.

What to do about vaginal dryness

1. If there is no water in the vagina, you can first choose to go to a health product store to buy some lubricants. Water-soluble lubricants are recommended because they are very effective and can be easily inserted during intercourse.

2. You want enough water and a comfortable sex. So before having sex, the foreplay must be sufficient. You should touch your girlfriend's sensitive parts when she is not paying attention, put your hand between her legs, then touch her breasts and kiss her ears. Caress her vulva and she will become more wet.

3. Or before having sex, tell your girlfriend some dirty jokes to arouse her mood. Alternatively, you can choose to have sex in the bathroom, turn on the shower, and have sex while taking a shower, so you don’t have to worry about not having enough water.

4. You can try external contraceptive suppositories, which can be said to kill two birds with one stone. It can lubricate the vagina and also have a contraceptive effect. It is natural for contraceptive suppositories to use mixed fatty acid glycerides.

5. When having sex, your girlfriend’s vagina is dry and without moisture. This often indicates that the woman is not concentrating or is not looking forward to the sex. At this moment, male friends can say some sweet words before making love, and touch her sensitive parts intentionally or unintentionally to arouse her sexual desire.

6. Do enough foreplay, indulge your lips and tongue, caress, kiss, touch, etc., do whatever you want, from the lips, chest, belly button, and then lower down, fully mobilize the woman's sexual desire.