What to do if my boyfriend doesn't want me to get pregnant

Nowadays, society is developing and people's concepts are also changing. Therefore, unmarried pregnancy caused by sexual intercourse before marriage often happens. So what should you do if your boyfriend doesn't want to have a baby after you get pregnant? This is a very practical issue. After all, both lovers may not have the ability to raise a child, and having a child will only make the child suffer, so it is understandable that your boyfriend doesn't want to have a baby. First of all, we need to make sure whether we are really pregnant. Some pregnancy phenomena are false, and pregnancy test sticks are not necessarily accurate. We need to test it several times to make sure whether we are really pregnant.

The principle of using early pregnancy test strips for pregnancy testing is to test the hCG value, that is, the value of human chorionic gonadotropin in the body. This growth hormone is produced by the embryo and begins to be secreted when the embryo implants. After metabolism, it first appears in the blood, and then in the urine along with the respiratory system. However, due to the small amount, it is not easy to test it at first, and it will not become obvious until 1-2.5 weeks of pregnancy. It is generally recommended to test early pregnancy test strips 14 days after intercourse or one week after menstruation is delayed, and the results will be more accurate. If the test result is negative and you still miss your period after a week, you should do another test.

If you are indeed pregnant, then we need to calculate how long you have actually been pregnant. Since we have very little time during pregnancy, we need to make a decision immediately.

During pregnancy, you have to face the decision of whether to have a child. Generally, girls are reluctant to have an abortion, but boyfriends face many difficulties. If the boyfriend does not want to have a child, the girl should ask clearly whether the other party is just treating her as a backup or a dating friend. If so, she should resolutely have an abortion and break up. If the man loves you very much and plans to marry you in the future, then both of you should face this matter together, analyze and prepare for future life together, and review the disadvantages of getting pregnant now. It is recommended not to have an abortion because children are God's blessing to us.

After careful consideration, if the man still insists on not having children, and the woman feels that it is not the right time to have a baby, then abortion can be considered. If the woman is determined to have a child and the man doesn't want to, then it's up to the other party to work on him. Do not use extreme methods, such as suicide, fasting and other irrational behaviors, to persuade your boyfriend to accept the child and to treat his own little life correctly.

Best time for abortion

The best time for abortion is generally before 9 weeks of pregnancy, but to finally determine how long a pregnancy is suitable for an abortion, we must refer to some test results before the operation. However, if the test tube embryo is very large, or even grows bones, it cannot be extracted with a large plastic straw. At this time, you can only be hospitalized and induce labor with drugs or water bags, and then perform a uterine cleaning operation after the test tube embryo and most of the embryo are expelled.

If the induced abortion operation is unsuccessful, it is necessary to rely on forceps curettage, which is to use instruments to immediately scrape out the test tube embryo and the embryonic uterus. The operation is very risky. It is easy to cause cervical damage and increased bleeding during the operation, and it also increases the risk of infection, uterine damage, and postoperative intrauterine adhesions. Therefore, if an unmarried woman plans to terminate the pregnancy, it is best to do so within 2 months of pregnancy.

If you don't want to have a baby, you can also choose medical abortion.

If you choose medical abortion within 49 days of pregnancy, the side effects of medical abortion are relatively small, and this period is the best time for medical abortion. Medical abortion refers to the use of Mifepristone (mifepristone) plus miso drugs taken orally to stop early pregnancy. The former causes the uterine decidua to become necrotic and the cervix to soften, while the latter causes uterine contraction and promotes the expulsion of the test tube embryo.

It usually takes three to four days to stop an unwanted pregnancy with medical abortion. Under normal circumstances, it takes four days to take the medicine on an empty stomach. Take one tablet each in the morning, noon and evening for the first three days, and three tablets at a time on the fourth day. Generally, there is no feeling in the first three days. The pain is more severe after taking the medicine on the fourth day, and some people's reaction is not obvious. Not only does medical abortion take a long time, but it also generally takes about 2 weeks to rest after the procedure. After the procedure, you should pay attention to observing the bleeding in the vagina. If vaginal bleeding exceeds normal menstrual volume or is accompanied by other discomfort symptoms, be sure to go to the hospital for medical treatment immediately.