What is the reason for discomfort during sex?

Sexual life is supposed to be pleasant and relaxing, but if you feel uncomfortable after sex, it will cause psychological trauma to your sex life, which will affect the quality of your sex life. In fact, most of the discomfort after sex is caused by gynecological inflammation, such as pelvic inflammatory disease, vaginitis, cervicitis and other gynecological inflammations. If you want to further confirm the diagnosis, it is best to go to the hospital for relevant examinations in time.

Is sex important in marriage?

There is no doubt about this. Although Chinese people are generally ashamed to talk about sex, they regard disharmonious marital life as a great shame. But the fact is that many couples have bad relationships because of this. The reasons are not difficult to understand:

First, everyone has instinctive impulses. If this impulse cannot be satisfied, it will cause great physical and psychological harm, and some people may even develop mental illnesses. Of course, some people will vent outside, which will make the relationship between husband and wife more tense.

2. It is often said that there is no overnight hatred between husband and wife. This is of course mainly because of the existence of husband and wife feelings. As long as both parties calm down, there will naturally be no hatred. Sometimes, the resolution of conflicts also depends on sex. At night, as long as the husband takes the initiative and gives in first, there will naturally be no conflicts. At this time, sex can also become a lubricant for the relationship between husband and wife. As the saying goes, "Fight at the head of the bed, make up at the foot of the bed."

If newly married young couples do not have sex, it is easy for the love they feel to not be able to be vented physically. They will always feel that something is missing. Moreover, couples need to adjust to each other. Sometimes sex is the best means when the adjustment is impossible. If there is no sex, it can easily become the fuse for the final breakup.

Therefore, the sexual life of a couple is very important. From a legal perspective, one spouse can legally file for divorce on the grounds that the other spouse is sexually frigid or impotent. If the court is unable to mediate, it can grant a divorce based on this basis.

The harmony of couple's life accounts for a large proportion of whether their marriage is happy. There are many couples who seem to be a good match but divorced due to sexual disharmony. There are also many couples who quarrel every day but live their whole lives because of their harmonious sex life. Of course, there are some other factors that make up marital life, but sex life is absolutely dominant in the relationship between husband and wife.

A sexless marriage can be painful and immoral.

Although sexual intercourse between husband and wife is very important, it is not necessary for a couple or for love. For example, when a woman reaches the age of 40 or 50, she reaches menopause, and sex is no longer the norm in the couple's life. At that time, what maintains the relationship between husband and wife is not sex, but the deep feelings accumulated by both parties, because, at a certain time, love and affection are the true feelings between husband and wife.

For young couples, married life is relatively important and plays a relatively large role. When they reach a certain age, feelings play a decisive role. Therefore, the preparation beforehand is very important and plays a decisive role in the emotional stability of life in old age.