How to comfort a girl with stomachache

How to comfort a girl with stomachache

Before comforting a girl, everyone needs to understand that a girl says she has a stomachache and comes to seek comfort, not a solution. Don't go up to her and immediately tell her to take medicine, drink boiled water, drink brown sugar water, or lie down and rest for a while. In fact, these are useless because she just wants comfort. Next, let’s take a look at what girls should do to comfort themselves when they have stomachache. I believe it is quite effective for most boys.

1. Sentences with deep understanding

When comforting a girl, many boys will say "drink more water, get enough rest". This kind of words to comfort a girl is indeed useful, but the girl will feel that you are perfunctory and that you don't care about her, because what the girl needs is your emotional comfort rather than just a few words. At this time, you should say to the girl: Ouch, this period is really naughty, I don't even know how painful it is for her. Okay, guys, no more jokes. Although I don't know how much pain you are in, I can imagine it. I wish I could feel the pain for you. You are so uncomfortable now, so I might as well feel uncomfortable.

When comforting a girl, if you tell her what to do to relieve the pain at the beginning, the girl will not be able to accept it, because the girl is not in a good mood now, and what she wants is understanding, that is, your care for her. Therefore, when a boy faces such things, he must first comfort the girl's emotions, and then provide the girl with a solution, so that the girl will be more likely to accept it.

2. Let the girl temporarily forget the pain

The pain during a girl's menstrual period will not get better with just a few words of comfort, but the girl's psychology needs comfort, so you must make the girl feel cared for. You can make the girl forget the pain temporarily by diverting her attention, which will be the best comfort. The pain during a girl's menstrual period will not be relieved by a few words of comfort, but girls do need comfort psychologically. In addition to making a girl feel cared for, comforting a girl might as well divert her attention and let her forget the pain temporarily. For example

1. Chat with girls and discuss some happy topics (games, entertainment, interesting things in daily life). In the process of chatting, you must pay attention to the girl's mood. Making the girl happy is the best comfort.

2. Call the girl, let her hear the sound, comfort the girl with words, of course, you still need to make the girl happy.

3. Play some relaxing music for the girl, or sing to her if you are a good singer.

3. Stay with the girl

When a girl has pain during her menstrual period, she may not need words of comfort. She will be very happy if there is someone by her side. Girls always feel insecure, so when a girl has a stomachache, why not stay with her, give her a cup of warm brown sugar ginger water, prepare a hot water bottle, and help her gently rub her abdomen.

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