No feeling of wetness during sex

Different things often happen when someone is having sex because everyone's physical condition is different. Women are prone to sexual indifference due to physical, psychological and other reasons. Or it may be because of an unexpected incident that you have personally experienced. Women with sexual frigidity often experience a lack of feeling during sex, and sometimes even feel extreme pain. Treat sex not as a pleasure but as a torture. So what are the reasons why you don’t feel or get wet during sex?

According to a survey, the incidence of female sexual apathy is about 30% to 40%. In other words, one in three women suffers from sexual apathy. Sexual apathy, also known as lack of sexual desire or coldness, is a common sexual dysfunction in women. Generally speaking, female sexual apathy refers to decreased sexual function and lack of sexual desire, etc., and often manifests itself in psychological and physiological symptoms, such as fear and aversion to partners, men, and lack of response to sexual caressing and stimulation, vaginal dryness, pain and discomfort during intercourse, etc.

3 typical manifestations of sexual indifference

1. Decreased libido: Mainly manifested in women’s lack of desire for sexual life and lack of sexual interest. Feeling anxious, uncomfortable, or even painful during intercourse. Some people do not avoid sex even if they have the above symptoms, but they cannot respond during sex, the pleasure is not obvious, and they don’t even know what an orgasm is, or they have never experienced an orgasm.

2. Breast pain: During normal sexual life, women’s breasts will react when they enter the excitement phase, with symptoms such as congestion of the breast surface and areola, and the breasts may swell by up to 1/4 in volume. During orgasm, breast enlargement reaches its peak. Then the breast congestion subsides and the volume gradually returns to its original state. This process takes about 15-30 minutes. For women with sexual frigidity, since they are slowly excited, the congestion and swelling of their breasts are not easy to subside or subside incompletely, which can cause breast swelling and pain.

3. Breast hyperplasia: Breast hyperplasia, also known as lobular hyperplasia, accounts for 2/3 of all breast diseases, and 1-3% may turn into breast cancer. Women who have not had sex for a long time or those who have a weak sex life are in a state of sexual inhibition for a long time due to lack of corresponding sexual stimulation. If the breasts do not undergo periodic physiological changes, the possibility of developing breast hyperplasia will increase. Therefore, breast hyperplasia may also be a consequence of sexual indifference.

Causes and treatment of sexual indifference

1. Psychological Effects

Some people with sexual apathy are afraid of sex due to psychological reasons. For example:

· Have experienced sexual trauma in childhood or adulthood (molestation, rape, incest, etc.);

· Feeling that one's body shape is abnormal or unclean and being afraid of being known by others;

· After a failed love or marriage, they develop a revenge mentality or self-punishment mentality towards men;

Suffering from depression. According to statistics from psychologists, the proportion of women with sexual frigidity suffering from potential depression can be as high as 26%.

· Worry about sexually transmitted diseases, worry about pregnancy, too much pressure in life and work, etc.

The above situations may be the psychological reasons for the patient's sexual indifference. In sex, physiological pleasure can break the limitations of psychological factors. Once the physical symptoms disappear, the psychological indifference will be broken, thus relieving the state of sexual indifference. Therefore, the husband's patient persuasion is crucial. Treating frigidity from both a physical and psychological perspective can lead to a faster cure. Those with severe conditions should consult a psychologist as soon as possible.

2. Diabetes

Diabetic patients may also suffer from sexual indifference. Mainly because of complications. For example, diabetic vascular disease leads to a decrease in vaginal secretions and reduced lubrication, resulting in dryness and pain during intercourse. Neuropathy weakens the sensitivity of nerve endings in the vaginal wall, making it difficult to stimulate orgasm. Vaginal and urinary tract infections are common in diabetic women, which also have a negative impact on the patient's sex life.

Clinical data show that the incidence of sexual dysfunction in diabetic women is about 35%. Experts recommend that women with sexual dysfunction should undergo relevant diabetes tests.

3. Thyroid disease

Both diseases of the thyroid gland can cause female sexual apathy.

(1) Hypothyroidism: There are two main situations in patients with hypothyroidism. First, hypothyroidism will lead to excessive secretion of prolactin, which will interfere with the secretion of gonadotropin and cause a decrease in the secretion of androgen, which is the main driving force of sexual desire. Second, hypothyroidism causes reduced metabolism in the body and slow energy generation, leading to physical and mental fatigue, which will naturally greatly reduce people's interest in sex.

(2) Hyperthyroidism: The key to the normal activation and maintenance of sexual desire lies in the appropriate proportions and balance of various related hormones in the body. As long as any one of the hormones decreases or increases, this balance will be disrupted and sexual desire will inevitably be affected. For example, excessive thyroid hormones can inhibit the secretion of pituitary gonadotropin, directly affecting women's menstrual physiology and causing menstrual disorders, such as decreased menstrual flow or even amenorrhea, prolonged, shortened or irregular menstruation, and the occurrence of sexual dysfunction is a natural thing.

Therefore, once a woman has unexplained sexual indifference, it is absolutely necessary to go to the hospital to check her thyroid function, blood sugar, psychological monitoring, etc.