Is it difficult to get married because you think too much? Let’s see what the report says!

In today's society, with the continuous emergence of work pressure, environmental pollution, food safety and other issues, health status has become a prerequisite for single men and women to get married. The Civil Code (Marriage and Family Code) mentions that "the scope of joint debts of the couple is clarified, and if one party conceals a major disease before marriage, the other party may request the People's Court to annul the marriage." This article highlights the necessity and importance of premarital examinations (hereinafter referred to as "premarital examinations").

As the times progress and cognition iterates, single men and women have become more proactive in their awareness of premarital health. In order to ensure a happy marriage after marriage, premarital checkups are increasingly valued by young people. The report shows that 57% and 55% of men born in the 1980s and 1990s will take the initiative to do premarital checkups , respectively; but in sharp contrast, 48% of women born in the 1980s and 81% of women born in the 1990s do so.

Understanding the health status of the other party is the key to improving the quality of marriage and protecting the health of the next generation, but personal health status is also a sensitive topic in the relationship between single men and women. Compared with married men and women, unmarried men and women are more likely to think that personal health status is private . The report statistics: 48% of unmarried men and 50% of unmarried women think that personal health status is private; while the proportion of married men and women is 32% and 31% respectively.

The premise for the establishment and stability of a marriage and family is mutual honesty and respect between men and women. If either party suffers from health problems before marriage, especially serious diseases, it will directly affect the rights and interests of the other party, as well as the other party's choice of marriage in accordance with their true wishes. Therefore, being honest about health conditions is a manifestation of respecting the other party's right to know and right to life.

The report also mentioned that except for 6% of women who believe that asking about the other party's health status under what circumstances would be considered a violation of their personal privacy, the vast majority of single men and women believe that as long as both parties "enter the stage of discussing marriage" , asking about the other party's health status would not be considered a violation of their personal privacy.

Abortion not only causes great harm to women's bodies, but also affects their future fertility, which is even more concerning for men with higher education. The report shows that 13% of men with high school education or below, 20% of men with college education, and 34% of men with bachelor's degree or above are concerned about whether the woman has a "history of abortion ."

As for the "abortion history", the vast majority of women believe that if it affects fertility, they should tell the other party. The report shows that 25% of women with high school education or below, 31% of women with college education, and 36% of women with bachelor's degree or above believe that they should tell the other party that they have a "abortion history".

In addition, the Civil Code's fertility policy also has an impact on the fertility concepts of single men and women in various regions. The report shows that women in the Northeast believe that they are most affected , accounting for 67% , while men in the Southwest believe that they are least affected , accounting for 26% .

Fertility is related to the quality of marriage. In today's living environment, for many ordinary people who are still struggling for a few pieces of silver, having children means taking on more financial pressure and consuming more of their own energy. The report shows that the top three biggest obstacles to "having children" are: family economic strength, personal energy, and personal career development . Among them, family economic strength and personal energy have a much greater impact on women than men .

Based on this, single men and women both believe that a cooling-off period for childbirth is more necessary than a cooling-off period for divorce by agreement. The report points out that in a comparison between unmarried men and women and married men and women, 61% of unmarried women and 62% of married women believe that a cooling-off period for childbirth is necessary . Married men believe that a cooling-off period for childbirth is necessary at 58% , much higher than the 14% of unmarried men.

Faced with the many uncertainties brought by marriage, single men and women hope to make agreements before marriage. In particular, women hope to make it clear in advance in terms of the content and proportion of housework, so as to lower their expectations of the other party, be mentally prepared, and avoid conflicts between the two parties after marriage. The report shows that 21% of men and 37% of women hope to make clear agreements with their lovers on the content of housework sharing before marriage ; 19% of men and 38% of women hope to make clear agreements with their lovers on the proportion of housework sharing before marriage.

As for the family status after marriage, single men and women have very different perceptions. Among them, women believe that only by loving themselves more can they love others well. The report shows that women believe that the most important family members after marriage are themselves , followed by children and spouses; men put their spouses first , followed by parents and children.

It is worth noting that when it comes to the distribution of income after marriage, single men and women have similar ideas. Both believe that children should assume the obligation to support their parents, and support is mainly reflected in providing financial assistance to parents. The report shows that 72% of men and 76% of women keep their income for themselves after marriage. 28% of men and 24% of women give their income to their parents after marriage .

However, when it comes to allocating maintenance to the other party's parents after forming a large family, single men and women have different choices. The report shows that 49% of men and 58% of women think that maintenance can be given depending on the situation; 51% of men and 40% of women think that maintenance is necessary; and 2% of women think that maintenance is not necessary .

From the above data, it can be seen that single men and women today have sufficient considerations for marriage, and the pursuit of marriage quality is the fundamental reason why they choose to enter into marriage cautiously.

via Jiayuan.com