What are the psychological changes of girls after a breakup? How do girls view a breakup?

Self-denial after being abandoned is the norm for many people who have been heartbroken. They always think that they are not good enough and that is why the other party wants to break up and leave. Don't think like this. You must build up your self-confidence. If someone doesn't want you, it really just means that he or she no longer needs your kindness or doesn't understand your kindness. So what are the psychological changes of girls after a breakup? How do girls view a breakup? Let's take a look at the introduction of Encyclopedia Knowledge Network below!

Contents of this article

1. What are the psychological changes of girls after a breakup?

2. How do girls view a breakup?

3. Reactions of girls of different ages after a breakup

What are the psychological changes of girls after a breakup?

Maybe in the adult world, you have to experience a few heartbreaks before you can really grow up. You see, the me who is comforting you now has grown up from the shadow of heartbreak.

A few years ago, I also had a time when I couldn't get over a breakup. During that time, I kept crying and crying every day, complaining about why I always met bad men, complaining about whether it was because I was not good enough, and thinking that I would never meet true love again. However, after a long time, that dark time finally passed. So I believe that you who have not yet gotten over the breakup will also feel the same.

I really like this line from Chungking Express:

Everyone has a broken heart, and every time I break up, I go running, because running can evaporate the water in your body, making it less easy for me to cry. How can I cry?

In fact, every time a relationship ends, we will grow rapidly, and every time we break up, we will be more clear about our future mate selection criteria. A person who has overcome the hurdle of a breakup will eventually become a better person. So, what you need to do is to cheer yourself up again.

I always believe that the earth is round and the love you give will always come back to you.

How do girls view a breakup?

Sometimes I miss the time when I was heartbroken, because I feel that if I hadn’t had that experience, I might not be who I am today. I even think that my life trajectory would be different from what it is now.

It’s not that I should thank that experience or that person, but I’m grateful that I didn’t choose to end my life so indulgently, nor did I give up on myself. I’m also grateful that someone stood by me when I was most helpless and told me that life can go on without anyone.

To be honest, I think those words of comfort after a breakup are the most useless, because the person who has been heartbroken will not understand, and people who have not been in a state of heartbreak cannot understand that kind of pain. It's like I once thought that the saying, no one can live without anyone else, is just nonsense.

In fact, if you can't leave gracefully after breaking up, it's just because you haven't accumulated enough disappointment and still have fantasies in your heart. But when disappointment accumulates to a certain extent, your heart will die and you will naturally turn around and leave. Do you still remember the song "Rewind" sung by Jolin Tsai? I finally see that love can't come back, and there are too many obstacles in front of you and me. The sweetness of the past is rewinding, but the feeling is no longer there.

One day you will understand that no one in this world can live without anyone else.

The reactions of girls of different ages after a breakup

When you are 18 and heartbroken, you can hide in the toilet and cry, you can drink and sing all night in the KTV, you can cry until you are dizzy, you can swear that you will never have anything to do with him again, and then start over as if you have never been hurt.

I broke up at the age of 22. I stayed awake all night and wandered around all night. But the next day I had to pretend that nothing was wrong because I still had to work and live. I had a blank expression on my face, but I knew that my heart was broken.

At the age of 25, you have thought about it countless times, why not go back to the age of 17 and fall in love passionately again, but you know clearly that you no longer have the energy to fall in love again.