Sexual quotient is the real wealth of a woman's life

Women have three intelligences, namely IQ, EQ and sexual intelligence.

Sexual quotient changes your destiny. The real mentor is not someone else, but your sexual quotient!

Sexual intelligence refers specifically to the ability to interact with the opposite sex, whether one can be appreciated and accepted by the other party, and whether one can have advanced and correct insights into the thoughts and behaviors of the opposite sex. It also refers generally to the way women treat life and happiness.

When a girl is in her twenties, or even younger, and she falls in love, she thinks she can love like this for the rest of her life. The man is good and considerate to her, so what else does she want? She thinks that this is the best love in the world and that this man is the best in the world.

The result was that the man left her and found another girl, completely ignoring her pain. She fought back with her death but failed to win back the man's heart. There are many tragedies like this.

If a girl, when she is young, devotes all her youth to a man, only to find out later that he is not as perfect as she imagined, and those flaws are unbearable to her. But the die is cast.

If a girl was deceived by the man she loved deeply when she was young. You have no right to blame men. Because, it's not that you met the wrong person, it's not that all men are worthless, it's that you don't have enough sexual intelligence to distinguish the man who is good enough and considerate enough for you. Is his promise as long-lasting and passionate as the sun or as short-lived and ethereal as a shooting star? Does he love you or treat you as his second-hand woman, like a spare tire on his car?

If you have enough sexual intelligence to discern all of this, I believe that when you are in love, you will not let a man treat you as an emotional backup, you will not become his second-hand woman, and you will not cry out that you have been cheated after devoting your all to a man...

Sexual intelligence is related to how much wealth a woman will have in her life.

Sexual intelligence, like IQ, needs to be developed and managed, and requires acquired learning, management and accumulation.

What kind of girl has a mature sexual quotient?

This question is not difficult to answer. First of all, these girls are very smart and have strong self-management skills. When they are studying, they will get good grades even without their parents' supervision. With strong organizational skills, they are usually either class monitors, study committee members, or student union cadres in school, and are deeply loved by teachers and classmates. He has a very good relationship with others, is willing to help classmates in need, willing to challenge difficulties and limits, and willing to explore new things.

When they enter society, they will become girls with independent opinions, ideas, correct outlook on life and the courage to change the status quo. If they are given a difficult task, they will not back down, but will complete it well. Leave the things that others are unwilling to do to them, and don't worry about whether they will just do it to get by. Use sexual quotient to win the like and respect of others.

Qingchun was my deskmate in college. She was so ordinary that no one could notice her in a crowd. However, unexpectedly, she later became the vice president of a daily enterprise. After all, she was only 30 years old, the company rewarded her with a Buick, and she also bought her own apartment. You know, the Japanese are very serious about their work. They are not only prejudiced but also very harsh towards the Chinese. However, Qingchun conquered the boss with her actions and changed his arrogance and harshness. He was convinced by this Chinese girl.

When dining with her boss for the first time, Qingchun discovered that her boss would not touch a single bite of any dish that had been touched by Chinese people with chopsticks. It is obvious that she is dissatisfied with the Chinese people's saliva being added to the dishes. Isn't this discrimination against Chinese people? Because of work, Qingchun needs to go out to eat with her boss frequently and entertain clients. Every time she goes to a restaurant with her boss, she won't touch any dish that has been eaten by the Japanese or the boss. Once again, she didn't eat a single bite of food and just drank a symbolic glass of beer. The boss couldn't help but ask curiously: Are you feeling uncomfortable? Qingchun shook her head. Don’t want to eat? Qingchun still shook her head. Since it's not there, why not eat it? Qingchun smiled and replied: It was you who taught me to respect myself and love myself through your actions. Thank you for your words and deeds. You also taught me how to love my nation and my country. The boss was speechless.

Qingchun said that she used silent actions to repay her Japanese boss's arrogance and rudeness, and also regained her dignity as a Chinese. After this incident, the boss looked at her with admiration.

Qingchun is intimidating without being angry. She always works hard and completes the tasks excellently every time her superior assigns her a task. From an ordinary employee to a department manager and then to a vice president, she took every step firmly. There are many girls in the company who are prettier than her, and some of them were department managers before she joined the company, but she has been promoted all the way.

In private, Qingchun and I discussed this issue. Qingchun said, on the surface, everything seemed to be going smoothly for me, but in fact, there was a time when I was misunderstood by my boss. In his eyes, Chinese people are lazy and irresponsible at work, and many employees in the company are often scolded by him. A girl angrily retaliated against her boss under the "encouragement" of her colleagues. She got rid of her anger, but the price she paid was to pack up and leave.

Whether in the workplace or in many things in life, it is not appropriate to respond to violence with violence. Responding to violence with violence is not conducive to one's own development and will also lead to a situation where things cannot be resolved.

So, I kept thinking about this question, which led to the boss's surprised question during dinner. I was not working hard to win the favor of the Japanese, I was silently proving to him that this was his prejudice against the Chinese. The reason why I couldn't argue with him over this issue was that he was the boss and I respected him, and I also didn't want him to think that Chinese people were uncultured.

She won the respect and love of her Japanese boss with her clever sexual quotient rather than sexual flattery. It can be said that Qingchun is the only person in the company who has never been scolded by the boss. The Japanese boss told Qingchun that the company needed employees like you who were smart enough to defeat the opponent without any words or war. This is especially necessary in the competition in the business world, and it is your unique charm.

The following year, Qingchun was sent to Japan to study business and Japanese. When she returned to China in the third year, I went to the airport to pick her up. She looked like an aristocratic and intellectual woman, with elegant manners, good conversation, and fluent Japanese.

A girl with a smart sexual quotient will be able to resolve any "problems" with humor, no matter what kind of boss, demanding man, or tricky colleague she deals with, turn disadvantages into advantages, turn big conflicts into small ones, and make small things disappear.

Sexual quotient is not sex, and sex is not sexual quotient

Using sex to win the favor of others is seduction. In the final analysis, sex cannot win the favor and respect of others, it can only please them. It is sad and shameful for a girl to use sex to please her superiors or the opposite sex who is beneficial to her in the workplace. It will only bring her temporary luck, not lifelong luck.

Girls with mature sexual quotient have been actively preparing for their future happy life since the day they entered college, and they have spared no effort. They achieve success on their own and get the life they want on their own, instead of trading sex and becoming parasites of rich men.

They will work hard towards their goals, get rid of the difficulties of fate with a positive attitude, look at every failure and setback with an optimistic mood, and are willing to invest in their ideals and future, and invest in their brains.

They will create opportunities for success for themselves and try to meet capable men, men who have successful careers, and men who are actively working hard for their careers. But they don't covet men's money.

They will create wealth for themselves. Even when they are "dating" rich men, they will insist that what's his is his and what's mine is mine. They can live a better life without relying on men's money. They will not stop creating wealth for themselves just because they meet rich men. Therefore, men will love such girls with all their heart. Almost all such girls, no matter what hardships they have experienced before, will have a happy and sunny life in the future, and almost live the life they want.

A girl with mature sexual quotient knows that ideal love is to have a diamond man who will care about you and earn enough money for romance for you. Having a spiritual dialogue with such an outstanding man can give people wisdom and enlightenment, and it is another classroom in life.

Ideal love, like an ideal man, first gives her a spiritual cleansing and makes her want to be reborn from the ashes, rather than physical fitness exercise.

She would assess the situation. Just like Qingchun, she said, there are many things that she cannot stand, but she cannot lose her temper and belittle others just because she cannot stand them. Even if she becomes a powerful vice president of a company, she cannot do this. Respect the self-esteem of others, and others will respect you. Do not blindly lose your sense of proportion because of the interests of a particular time and place, or the desires of a particular person or thing. We should not only see our strengths, but also discover our weaknesses and shortcomings. She will accept the fact that she cannot change. Besides her parents, her environment cannot be changed either. She must learn to accept it.